Saturday, May 20, 2006

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If that's the question, then the answer is No, I can't marry a man who doesn't want to have children. No matter how much he loves me and how well he takes care of me. And yes, I do realize that finding such a relationship again will be difficult, but there are no buts and ifs when it comes to children. I want to be a mom someday and I want the father of my child(ren) to be as excited as I am about being a parent.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

marry him if he truly, absolutely,and unconditionally wants ur best

dokhtare aftab said...

but i want children, and besides i might be able to convince myself now but i now that not having children will make me unhappy later on in life ...

Pedram said...

your viewpoint is logical in my opinion.

Anonymous said...

I guess there is comma needed here:
"I am about, being a parent"

Anonymous said...

then what will happen if ur potential partner becomes infertile?

dokhtare aftab said...

dear anonymous i meant to say that i want him to be excited like i am "as excited(about being a parent) as i am"

roodi, what if i get hit by a car? not having a child at the end is a chance that i will take, but at least he will be as willing as i am to try to have children and even if we don't, we can solve our problem knowing that we both want the same thing ...